"Actually Romantic" is not actually about a romance, per se. Rather, it's a response to an unnamed person who, according to the lyrics, has spent a lot of time talking about Taylor.
"High-fived my ex and then you said you're glad he ghosted me," Taylor sings. "Wrote me a song saying it makes you sick to see my face / Some people might be offended / But it's actually sweet."
While Taylor rarely reveals who a song is written about, many fans on social media believe it was inspired by Charli XCX, who opened for Taylor on her Reputation Tour and is friends with Taylor's ex Matty and his fiancée Gabbriette Bechtel.
When Charli—who is married to Matty’s The 1975 bandmate George Daniel—released brat in June 2024, there was speculation that her song "Sympathy is a Knife" threw shade at Taylor. However, two months later, Taylor seemed to put rumors to rest by sharing her praise for Charli.
“I’ve been blown away by Charli’s melodic sensibilities since I first heard ‘Stay Away’ in 2011,” Taylor told New York magazine in an article published Aug. 26. “Her writing is surreal and inventive, always. She just takes a song to places you wouldn’t expect it to go, and she’s been doing it consistently for over a decade. I love to see hard work like that pay off."
Another easter egg it could be about Charli? The Spotify cover image shows Taylor holding an apple, the title of Charli's 2024 viral song.
E! News has reached out to reps for comment on the speculation and has not heard back.
