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Nigerian man in UK gives 4 reasons why he is not dating anyone

A Nigerian student studying in the United Kingdom has disclosed online that he is not dating anyoneIn a viral post, he gave four reasons why he is not in any relationship at the moment, sparking reactions onlineHis post was met with mixed reactions, with some people recounting their near-relationship experiences A UK-based Nigerian man has highlighted reasons he is not in any relationship for now. In a TikTok post, he noted that the first reason is that he is on a student visa. The young man added that he is not in a relationship because he does not own a car or know how to drive. Another reason he highlighted is that some people think that he looks like a playboy. The final reason he gave was that he is not financially buoyant enough to be dating someone. In his words: "I don't do no 50/50 sh'it, I believe I should be capable to take care of my lady, don't have that money yet." His TikTok post triggered mixed reactions. Man's reasons for being single stir reactions Legit.ng has compiled some reactions to the man's post below: Jessica 🇬🇧 🇬🇭#mummyto3boy# said: "It didn't bother me when my man didn't have a car, didn't have the money what matters most is his time, attention and effort. My man is from Ghana and he is best African guy I've been with he is amazing. so you will find some women out that that will love you for you." Stephfj said: "Number 4, as a woman that is independent I never expect a man to pay for My things, you don't need money to look after a lady." Catchmeifyoucan 👻 said: "The British aren’t here for materialistic things! You’re in the right country to fine you one." 👑 Bonnie 👑 said: "Focus on your purpose in life and the right one will enter your life at the correct time she is menna come into ya life x not all us UK women focus on materialistic stuff .. there is alot of us women what just want love and connection." Bliz Photography Uk🇬🇧 said: "I get woman for u infact wife😔 she won’t be look at those stuff u mentioned she believe growing together." GraciasOla🇳🇬 said: "Naso one student wash me bcus say I dey on visiting visa😭😭😭....now hold residency 💪...the werey still dey find cos." Sam♡♡ said: "We UK girls are different. materialistic things dont matter." Marilyn je suis 💕 said: "Good luck, try to find a student as well so you guys can build something stronger." In a related story, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian man in the UK had recounted how a lady lost interest in him after hearing how long he has lived there. Lady vows never to bring man abroad Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a UK-based lady had said she would never bring any man over there. The lady shared her stance in a recent interview with a TikTok user identified as @preciousubani. She mentioned the reasons behind her stance, emphasising the financial challenges she had faced since moving to the UK. According to her, the cost of relocating to the UK had left her in debt, with repayments still ongoing into her third year in the country. She expressed frustration at the idea of shouldering similar expenses for a romantic partner. Source: Legit.ng

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"Why?" Girl displays insulting text her mum sent her after she moved into new apartment at 17

A young girl has gone public with the hurtful text she received from her mother after moving into a new apartmentAccording to the 17-year-old girl, her mother kicked her out of the house at 16, but she has since turned things around by herselfThe hurtful text from the girl's entitled mother has been met with condemnation from social media usersCHECK OUT: Share Your Feedback on Legit.ng & Win Access to Our Copywriting Course!Outrage has trailed the insulting text that a mother sent to her 17-year-old daughter, who recently moved into a new apartment.The text was shared on TikTok by her daughter through her handle @shopwithlaee.A girl displays the insulting text her mother sent her. Photo Credit: @shopwithlaeeSource: TikTokIn the text, the girl's entitled mother noted that she was aware that she had moved into a new apartment, which she belittled as stupid and little.The woman said she does not want the girl around and criticised her for making so much money a month, and yet failing to help her. The text read:Read also“This might be end of my marriage”: Woman cries out as husband tells her to stop creating contentFind the stories that matter to you – faster. Use our new search tool: Click to search!"Hmm I see you got your stupid little apartment. "I don't want you back around me."Your making all that money a month and can't help your mother!!!"In another post, the girl disclosed that her mother had kicked her out of the house at 16. She further stated that she turned her situation around two months later by moving into a new apartment, buying her first car and now earning $20k (over N29 million) per month. All achieved by the age of at 17.A girl received a hurtful text from her mother. Photo Credit: @shopwithlaeeSource: TikTokPeople condemn girl's mum's disheartening textLegit.ng has compiled some reactions to the woman's text below:2x🫀 said:"Idk why parents think we owe them something. Like it really gives you birth kids just for them to legit take care of you. We didn’t ask to be here. If anything they need to help us. Keep going boo you’re doing amazing!"Read alsoMum prays for God to protect her children after seeing what house help did to her 7-month-old babyLifeofken said:"Congrats on your BIG apartment. Tf she mad at you for for wanting to get away from HER. She don’t see how she the problem?! She thought about what she had to say, typed it and pressed send. To the BABY she gave birth to."Aganang said:"I think your mom and my Mom are sisters, I got the same feedback when I showed her pics of my new house."PitsoEats said:"If you have parents who actually parent properly you’re so lucky cause it’s a evil world we live in."L A I L A 🎀 said:"Parents really make you feel like YOU’RE the reason YOU here 😭. They really blame everybody else for their mistakes but them."mimi :) said:“U can’t help me so i helped myself, i never planned on even coming back, if i found a way u better too!!!!!!!!” is exactly wt'f i would’ve said & blocked her ahh."Read also"Fake life no good": Lady exposes voice note from 'random girl' who made strange requestIn a related story, Legit.ng reported that a man had displayed the painful message that his mother sent him.Painful message lady received from biological mumMeanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a lady had posted the saddening message she received from her biological mother.The disheartened lady remarked that one doesn't need enemies when they have a mother like hers. She lamented that life was already unfair to her, and her mum worsened the situation, but noted that she had learnt to survive storms. The hurtful message from her mother touched internet users. ATTENTION: Help Shape the Future of Legit.ng — Leave Feedback and Win Copywriting Course Access. Source: Legit.ng