Articles by Tara Russell

World

Do you feel like you have successfully adapted to Spanish culture and society?

Moving to Spain sparks a range of emotions, from excitement to uncertainty, and one of the biggest questions for newcomers is whether they will truly feel at home. For some, adapting to Spanish life comes naturally, while for others the process is gradual, challenging, or even optional. When we asked our readers whether they feel they have successfully adapted to Spanish culture and society, their replies highlighted just how varied the experience can be. For many, mastering the language and embracing everyday life is key. As Judith D Altavista put it, “Yes of course. It is simple: do not live in a ‘whatever’ speaking bubble; do not live in the middle of a tourist resort. Settle in an authentic environment and, of course, speak the language at least up to a certain level, so you can master your everyday life.” Several readers described full immersion, often rooted in personal relationships. Dennis Norton Maidana shared, “Totally. Married to Spaniard who doesn’t speak a word of English and all my friends are Spanish. Changed nationality many years ago and now hold a Spanish passport.” Others emphasised long-term commitment. Deb Horses said, “Indeed. Been here for 50+ years. In fact, have Spanish nationality for decades!” Christine Docherty also highlighted the linguistic side of integration: “I have lived in Spain near Barcelona for 50 years. I speak Spanish as if I were speaking English.… I also speak Catalán… I have been completely integrated into Spanish society for years now. It’s not difficult – you just have to want to.” Some responses showed a more relaxed or humorous take, with Michael Bath quipping, “I have given it a good go… eight bottles of San Miguel, one bottle of vino tinto, a four-hour siesta, and leave everything till mañana.” For some, barriers remained. Stephen Cosgrove noted efforts on both sides matter: “We are very friendly with our Spanish neighbours […] but they are not ones to want to take it further. It takes two to tango.” Gloria Hammett added, “No, but working on it. The responsibility is mine.” Some simply responded “Yes”, including Marian Morgan Visockis, Parnell, Antonio Reseco, and Clare Embrey, while Pilar Gomez offered a thoughtful reminder: “Integration means different things to different people… A community which is functioning properly willingly accepts and even welcomes a level of difference and diversity.” Overall, most respondents felt integrated to some degree, particularly those who embraced the language, local customs, and community life. However, many agreed that integration is personal, multifaceted, and not a one-size-fits-all journey.